Society

Mans Newspaper Ad his Girlfriend Takes Surprising Turn

Ruth Kamau  ·  February 6, 2015

A man in a quiet Midwestern town placed a short classified ad last month hoping it would reach his girlfriend after a messy argument. He kept the wording plain, something about wanting to talk things out and make it right, and figured the local paper was still the best way to get through to her without another shouting match over the phone.

The ad ran as planned, but the response came from an unexpected place. Another woman who had recently split from her own partner saw the message and reached out, thinking it might be meant for her. She left a voicemail at the number listed, and when the two finally spoke they realized the mix-up within minutes. Instead of hanging up they kept talking.

By the time the original girlfriend spotted the ad and called to ask what he was thinking, the man had already arranged a coffee meeting with the stranger. He later told friends the whole thing felt like some old sitcom plot that had spilled into real life. The newspaper staff fielded a handful of other calls from readers who found the situation funny or oddly touching.

Word spread around town fast once the mix-up became known. Some locals joked that the classifieds page had turned into its own kind of dating service. The man ended up canceling the second meeting and focusing on sorting things out with his actual girlfriend, though he admitted the brief detour had made him rethink how he handled arguments going forward.