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Boyfriend Takes Drastic Measures After Discovering 14 Year Old Girlfriend

Ruth Kamau  ·  September 13, 2015

A man in his early twenties learned the hard way that online connections can hide serious problems. After months of messaging and video calls with a girl he believed was eighteen, he stumbled across her real age through a mutual acquaintance last week. She was fourteen. The discovery hit him hard enough that he decided against a quiet breakup.

Instead he drove straight to the local police station and explained the entire situation. Officers took his statement and later confirmed they had spoken with the girl’s family. The man handed over his phone records and social media logs without being asked twice. He told friends afterward that he wanted everything documented so there would be no misunderstanding about his intentions once he found out.

The girl’s parents had apparently been unaware of the relationship. When they were contacted by authorities, they restricted her access to the internet and made it clear they planned to monitor her more closely. The man, meanwhile, deleted every account tied to the conversations and stopped using the app where they first met.

People who know him said the episode left him rattled. He had been planning to meet her in person that month, assuming she was an adult living a few states away. Finding out otherwise changed his mind about how much strangers online should be trusted. Police have not filed any charges, describing the case as one they see more often than the public realizes.